I just had a few thoughts this morning that I believe are worth sharing. I think most women grow up disliking their bodies, or being insecure about them ('I'm too fat / too thin / too tall / too short / boobs/butt too big or too small,' etc.) We've recently begun a conversation about this, and it's call "body acceptance" -- a plea to remind all (women and men) that we all come in different shapes and sizes, and you should love what you have.
But I also think we need more self-acceptance, self-love. We need to start truly loving who WE are. Our spirit, or soul, our personality -- whatever you want to call it. Who and where you are in life right now: Love that person!
I don't mean that you shouldn't try to better yourself, you absolutely should -- on a daily basis. But I also feel like we can be too hard on ourselves. I've had a business (in one shape or another) for 10 years, on and off. I used to say that I was the best boss I've ever had, but also the toughest boss I've ever had. I think, at times, I am that way just with myself: I can be so critical and harsh. Even mean! To my own self! So today, I'm reminding myself: MORE LOVE. That's what I need.
If I had baby or child that wasn't perfect, I would never talk to them or treat them like I sometimes treat myself. I would love them and encourage them to be their very best self, as often as possible. I'm watching the TV series "Parenthood" for the first time (on Netflix), and the other day, I believe it was the character Adam who said to Amber "...life will knock you down more times than you can possibly imagine. Don't knock yourself down, too." My sentiments exactly.
So my little (but important!) reminder for today: Love yourself. Accept that we may have flaws in who we are, but we can always choose to do better next time. Celebrate what you like about yourself. As for me, I will acknowledge that I am a really great mom. I am a loving person. I am sensitive in some very good ways. I am kind. I am optimistic.
Am I all of these things, all of the time? No. But today I'm grateful that they are true.
What do you love about yourself? What are you grateful for? I'd love to hear your answers in the comments, but even if you keep your answers to yourself, I think they are some pretty important questions.
1.23.2013
11.28.2012
3 things to remember this holiday season...
Yesterday I was thinking... what exactly do I want to give this holiday season?
I'm not talking about monetary gifts, but things I could give not only to my family, friends, and loved ones, but also myself, and the rest of the world. This simple list was what immediately came to mind...
Be mindful.
Be grateful.
Be kind.
There it is. Three simple things we can do for the rest of the year (if not the rest of our lives!)
11.27.2012
christmas is coming!
I'm so excited that one of my newest creations made it to Etsy's front page over the weekend:
This little guy has had over 1000 views, but still hasn't found his forever home... Could it be yours?
This little guy has had over 1000 views, but still hasn't found his forever home... Could it be yours?
11.21.2012
PDX Etsy Black Friday and Cyber Monday Sale!
PDX ETSY CYBER MONDAY 2012
It's already time to make our lists and check them twice!
And what better way to celebrate that than to check out some awesome CYBER MONDAY deals from members of the PDX ETSY team.
This is a fantastic way to take advantage of some great discounts from some of your favorite Portland makers.. or to discover some super new shops.
Check out this list of super amazing talented participants including the details of their specific discounts.
Artisticsoul Designs
bama + ry
BleuOiseau Photography
Bloom by Arissia
cookoorikoo
Ellie Creations
Flavia Bennett Designs
HHknits
Historical Tidbits
Joyful Studio
Julie Kujawa
Kendra Binney
Knot-Cha-Cha!
Kusala Knitworks
leakarts
MarshMueller
Oystercatcher Yarns
Photos By Chipperfield
Pillars of Creation
piper ewan
PomLove
Porcuprints
Prunella Soap
Puppenwerkstatt
Raspberry Swirl
Reverse Chronology
secondblush
Sesame Seed Designs
Snappy Rockfish Soap
The Cozy Project
Treloar Couture
And what better way to celebrate that than to check out some awesome CYBER MONDAY deals from members of the PDX ETSY team.
This is a fantastic way to take advantage of some great discounts from some of your favorite Portland makers.. or to discover some super new shops.
Check out this list of super amazing talented participants including the details of their specific discounts.
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Allen Metal Arts
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cookoorikoo
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Ellie Creations
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HHknits
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Historical Tidbits
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leakarts
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Oystercatcher Yarns
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Photos By Chipperfield
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piper ewan
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Porcuprints
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Puppenwerkstatt
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Raspberry Swirl
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Reverse Chronology
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secondblush
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Sesame Seed Designs
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Snappy Rockfish Soap
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The Cozy Project
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Treloar Couture
Free pair of Persian Princess Earrings with every purchase placed on Cyber Monday!
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